Tuesday, March 21, 2006
Observationews:
It was Emma's 25th birthday, and our 6 months together, on Sunday.
After several insinuations by one of my work colleagues, in general day-to-day conversations, I came out and said to him that Emma and I are not having sex before marriage. He looked at me like I was from another planet. Then said, "so you've only had it once, then not since then?" I then told him again that Emma and I are not having sex before marriage. He looked at me like I was from another planet. Again.
That said, (and I've written on this before, but only from a before-perspective), after experiencing it for myself, and plenty of times, I really don't see how the interlocking of lips for kissing cannot be recognised as sexual and intimate.
After several insinuations by one of my work colleagues, in general day-to-day conversations, I came out and said to him that Emma and I are not having sex before marriage. He looked at me like I was from another planet. Then said, "so you've only had it once, then not since then?" I then told him again that Emma and I are not having sex before marriage. He looked at me like I was from another planet. Again.
That said, (and I've written on this before, but only from a before-perspective), after experiencing it for myself, and plenty of times, I really don't see how the interlocking of lips for kissing cannot be recognised as sexual and intimate.